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Wednesday, July 20, 2011
7.21.11
Hi Blogging Friends.... the last time I wrote in my blog was April, which was a very hard month for me. Losing my father was and is the hardest thing I've dealt with so far in my life and while I assure you I remain dedicated to doing "Random Acts of Kindness" I just don't seem to have the emotional energy to blog about it anymore. Bennett (my dad) followed my blog everyday and it hurts to know I'm sending it out there without him. I hope that my "acts" have made you think and maybe inspired you to try a few of your own. For now, at least, I'm ending this project. Love to you all.
Wednesday, April 6, 2011
4.5.11 - Anticiparcellation
Here's the last three days, which will lead up to "Anticiparcellation"
4.3.11 - My dear friend A who has NOT been eating needed something tempting to remind her to eat so I made her a batch of pumpkin muffins and some chocolate chip cookies! I hope she rounds it out with some veggie and protein but hey, at least it's some calories! xox
4.4.11 - I rounded up ALLLLLLL the spare change we had around the house and put it in a giant container. We do this once a year and take it to Coin Star. The kids get to pick which charity to give it to, which we will do later in the week. When they were little we used to do Toys for Tots and things like that and they had so much fun picking out the presents with all the money but now that they are teenagers, they just aren't thaaaaaaat into it....they are happy to just fork over the dough. Fine with me. I'll post later once they decide where it's going.
4.5.11 - My darling father is a crazy, kooky kind of a guy and he loves to make up words that we end up adopting into our daily language. One of our favorites is "Anticiparcellation"...sometimes we will get a call or an email with just that word and it means what it says -- expect a package. Today I ordered a PhotoBook with various photos from Noah's bar mitzvah weekend just for my Dad. It should be there within the week....so Dad, if you are reading this, I just ruined your surprise and I will leave you with one word...Anticiparcellation!
4.3.11 - My dear friend A who has NOT been eating needed something tempting to remind her to eat so I made her a batch of pumpkin muffins and some chocolate chip cookies! I hope she rounds it out with some veggie and protein but hey, at least it's some calories! xox
4.4.11 - I rounded up ALLLLLLL the spare change we had around the house and put it in a giant container. We do this once a year and take it to Coin Star. The kids get to pick which charity to give it to, which we will do later in the week. When they were little we used to do Toys for Tots and things like that and they had so much fun picking out the presents with all the money but now that they are teenagers, they just aren't thaaaaaaat into it....they are happy to just fork over the dough. Fine with me. I'll post later once they decide where it's going.
4.5.11 - My darling father is a crazy, kooky kind of a guy and he loves to make up words that we end up adopting into our daily language. One of our favorites is "Anticiparcellation"...sometimes we will get a call or an email with just that word and it means what it says -- expect a package. Today I ordered a PhotoBook with various photos from Noah's bar mitzvah weekend just for my Dad. It should be there within the week....so Dad, if you are reading this, I just ruined your surprise and I will leave you with one word...Anticiparcellation!
Saturday, April 2, 2011
4.2.11 - Helpin' Out could make me Top Banana
Here's catching up on the last few days...
March 29-30 I was in bed with the flu so I'm giving myself a PASS on RAKs for those days.
March 31 - At school conferences our Forensic's coach mentioned they will be needing lots of help to get the kids ready for the next big competition.....so being a former Forensics nerd I volunteered to coach a class two days a week for the next month. I loved being a judge at the last competition so this will be fun and also interesting.
April 1 - My little friend Sophia told me that for her 13th birthday her grandmother was taking her to San Francisco this week for her present! OF COURSE I was so excited for her since SF is my "adopted" hometown and my favorite place to be. So today I found an old SF map, circled all my favorite things to do and sent her a top 10 list of things to do/sights to see that I thought she would enjoy. I also added a list of "insider tips" about the city that you wouldn't find in a guide book! Hope she has an amazing time!
April 2 - With our failing economy and our state in a "state of disaster", it is harder and harder to get corporations and even individuals to sponsor charitable events. I spent a few minutes today to send some requests out on behalf of the For a Day Foundation to underwrite the cost of 300 bananas for our runners for the Fun Run/5K April 23rd. I will continue to pursue this during the week until I have found a donor! Yes, I do believe this will make me Top Banana. Sorry, that was bad.
March 29-30 I was in bed with the flu so I'm giving myself a PASS on RAKs for those days.
March 31 - At school conferences our Forensic's coach mentioned they will be needing lots of help to get the kids ready for the next big competition.....so being a former Forensics nerd I volunteered to coach a class two days a week for the next month. I loved being a judge at the last competition so this will be fun and also interesting.
April 1 - My little friend Sophia told me that for her 13th birthday her grandmother was taking her to San Francisco this week for her present! OF COURSE I was so excited for her since SF is my "adopted" hometown and my favorite place to be. So today I found an old SF map, circled all my favorite things to do and sent her a top 10 list of things to do/sights to see that I thought she would enjoy. I also added a list of "insider tips" about the city that you wouldn't find in a guide book! Hope she has an amazing time!
April 2 - With our failing economy and our state in a "state of disaster", it is harder and harder to get corporations and even individuals to sponsor charitable events. I spent a few minutes today to send some requests out on behalf of the For a Day Foundation to underwrite the cost of 300 bananas for our runners for the Fun Run/5K April 23rd. I will continue to pursue this during the week until I have found a donor! Yes, I do believe this will make me Top Banana. Sorry, that was bad.
Monday, March 28, 2011
3.28.11 - Weekend Stuff
Today I'm taking a pass as I've spent the entire day in bed with the flu -- so maybe my RAK is that I quarantined myself so as not to pass this onto the rest of my household?
In a quick recap of the past three days (b/c I really need to go back to sleep)
SUNDAY - organized a group of volunteers for a friend's project.
SATURDAY - volunteered my entire day/and half the evening to be a Forensics Judge in Anchor Bay (the middle of nowhere) for Noah's school.
FRIDAY - packed up and donated a box of school supplies for a Roeper student who is donating them to students in Afghanistan.
Okay, back to ginger ale and Saltines....see you in a few days.
xox
In a quick recap of the past three days (b/c I really need to go back to sleep)
SUNDAY - organized a group of volunteers for a friend's project.
SATURDAY - volunteered my entire day/and half the evening to be a Forensics Judge in Anchor Bay (the middle of nowhere) for Noah's school.
FRIDAY - packed up and donated a box of school supplies for a Roeper student who is donating them to students in Afghanistan.
Okay, back to ginger ale and Saltines....see you in a few days.
xox
Thursday, March 24, 2011
3.24.11 -- Fighting the Good Fight and more...
March 22 - Tuesday the Michigan Film Office hosted a Pen to Paper Rally in favor of keeping the Tax Incentives for the Film Industry. Obviously it is something I firmly support. It has offered me a chance to recreate my career and it is one that I love and don't want to lose. I had a few hours to kill on Tuesday so although it was faaaaar away, I made the trek out and volunteered a few hours of my time. We stuffed envelopes, educated people on who their senators and reps were and helped them write letters to be delivered to the capital. I was happy to help and will continue to volunteer as much as they need.
March 23 - Volunteered to be Snack Coordinator for Noah's baseball team -- contacted all the parents and put together a calendar of games/dates/snacks, etc. No biggie but someone had to do it.
March 24 - Wednesday I shared my loot of fashion magz with my neighbor. Who doesn't love finding magazines in the mailbox? It's like an unexpected gift~
March 23 - Volunteered to be Snack Coordinator for Noah's baseball team -- contacted all the parents and put together a calendar of games/dates/snacks, etc. No biggie but someone had to do it.
March 24 - Wednesday I shared my loot of fashion magz with my neighbor. Who doesn't love finding magazines in the mailbox? It's like an unexpected gift~
Monday, March 21, 2011
3.21.11 - ARF a K
March 21, 2011 -- Mondays are usually full of errands and today was no different. While buying Buckley's dog food at Pet Supplies Plus today I noticed the decorated bins in the corner asking for food and supply donations. I've seen them many times before and honestly, never paid much attention as I'm usually in a hurry. I knew I had food in the pantry that we weren't going to use after trying lots of new brands over the past year ---- so I went home, gathered it up and brought it back to the store. Local animal shelters will receive all the goodies. I'm pretty sure every pet store does this so next time you're there (and I will do the same), pick up an extra bag of treats.
Sunday, March 20, 2011
3.20.11 - Weekend RAKs
Hello once again - it's time for the TRIO of RAKs again....seems like that's my new trend; writing every three days....STILL working on getting better at this.
FRIDAY - I can't say "what" I did b/c "someone" may read this and it pertains to "Someone's birthday" --- let's just say I went on a tiny roadtrip to make something happen to make someone feel special and have fun on his/her special day.
SATURDAY - This is a tough one, as being Mom does not mean everything I do is an RAK....I mean I think it's pretty much understood that my needs and wants will always come last and I know that's part of the deal...however, I'm giving myself a pat on the back for this one......all week I've had plans Saturday night. I just wanted to go out, have a few laughs and a few drinks and just relax from the week. The "Noahs" had a party to go to so I schlepped them out and should have been on my way. An hour later the "Noahs" decided they would rather "hang out with the ladies" than be at the party and "would I plz pk thm up".......so to make a long story short, I nixed my plans so I could ONCE AGAIN play chauffeur to my kids.....I was boy-crazy at 13 so I totally get it...and I'm giving myself credit for an RAK on that one.
SUNDAY - While walking the cutest dog in America today I noticed my neighbors had a bunch of newspapers piling up on their driveway and lawn. I happen to know they are out of town so I cleaned it up.....I'm only giving myself an RAK on this one b/c they happened to be SOAKING wet and full of mud.
PS: Does inviting your mother-in-law for dinner for no reason count as an RAK???? I'm thinking that's a YES!
FRIDAY - I can't say "what" I did b/c "someone" may read this and it pertains to "Someone's birthday" --- let's just say I went on a tiny roadtrip to make something happen to make someone feel special and have fun on his/her special day.
SATURDAY - This is a tough one, as being Mom does not mean everything I do is an RAK....I mean I think it's pretty much understood that my needs and wants will always come last and I know that's part of the deal...however, I'm giving myself a pat on the back for this one......all week I've had plans Saturday night. I just wanted to go out, have a few laughs and a few drinks and just relax from the week. The "Noahs" had a party to go to so I schlepped them out and should have been on my way. An hour later the "Noahs" decided they would rather "hang out with the ladies" than be at the party and "would I plz pk thm up".......so to make a long story short, I nixed my plans so I could ONCE AGAIN play chauffeur to my kids.....I was boy-crazy at 13 so I totally get it...and I'm giving myself credit for an RAK on that one.
SUNDAY - While walking the cutest dog in America today I noticed my neighbors had a bunch of newspapers piling up on their driveway and lawn. I happen to know they are out of town so I cleaned it up.....I'm only giving myself an RAK on this one b/c they happened to be SOAKING wet and full of mud.
PS: Does inviting your mother-in-law for dinner for no reason count as an RAK???? I'm thinking that's a YES!
Thursday, March 17, 2011
3.17.11 - Trio of RAKs
Checking in again.....wow I really thought I could write each and every day and am really disappointed in myself that I haven't done it. It's a nice way to end my day and I will try and do better.
Reflecting on the last three days:
March 15 & 16, 2011 --
Tuesday & Wednesday were the same RAK.....and it's something I've been doing for awhile. "Someone" I know is quite the pack rat. And when I say that it is bordering on hoarding it is not an exaggeration. I spent Tues & Wed packing, moving, cleaning, purging and scolding/encouraging my pal as he is beginning to move out of a house he isn't even living in anymore. It's been taking us months to get this done and we still have yet to finish. In a way it is just hard for him to close the chapter of that part of his life. So many memories, so many, many, many things. That is where I come in. Trying to make someone understand that LESS is more, is close to impossible. Things are just that --- things! Buying more and more is almost like overeating. It is unhealthy and impulsive and wasteful. Some of his purchases were made out of disorganization but many were made to fill a void. I hope as he has moved on into a better chapter of his life, and in our purging exercise SEES the excessive error of his ways, he will learn this lesson.
While I've been helping him for awhile I found it meaningful to write about it this week because this was the week I arranged to have St. Vincent DuPaul come with moving trucks to take his old belongings, clothes, furniture, etc. to their resale shop for them. The proceeds for all sales will go to their organization. I am certain this gift is the largest they have ever and will ever see. Day 1 we filled an entire truck, which called for Day 2. I am sure we will have a Day 3 in the future. It felt so great to know that the gifts he gave will be spread throughout the city and that without my help it would never have happened. It also made me want to go home and clean out my basement.
March 17, 2011 --
Today was a very sad day. We said good-bye to a beautiful, gregarious, fun, intelligent woman, who was the partner of a good friend of ours. Her son also happens to be my son Shelby's best friend. It is so hard to help the ones you love when they are hurting -- you can give a donation and you can send flowers or dinner. You can support them as they say good-bye and you can be a listening ear...but I really wanted to share something special with Annie today to give her a smile and a happy memory of her true love so this morning as she prepared to say "good bye" I sent her a photograph of the two of them smiling as they enjoyed a party we had. While it was a small token, I really think today's RAK goes to my son Shelby. He has always been a special and sensitive boy and when I asked him if he wanted to come to Judith's funeral he said "of course I'm coming!" It did not occur to him for even a second that he wouldn't be there for his friend. He stayed with his friend and sat with him throughout the funeral, which impressed me immensely. This was Shelby's first funeral, and being a sensitive child, I wasn't sure how he would do. Would he be scared? Would he cry? Would he get nervous? He was so sad for Annie but tried to stay really calm for his friend's sake. I am so proud to have an empathetic, loving child who knows how to cherish his friends....and what makes me the most proud is that it genuinely came from his own instincts and heart.
Reflecting on the last three days:
March 15 & 16, 2011 --
Tuesday & Wednesday were the same RAK.....and it's something I've been doing for awhile. "Someone" I know is quite the pack rat. And when I say that it is bordering on hoarding it is not an exaggeration. I spent Tues & Wed packing, moving, cleaning, purging and scolding/encouraging my pal as he is beginning to move out of a house he isn't even living in anymore. It's been taking us months to get this done and we still have yet to finish. In a way it is just hard for him to close the chapter of that part of his life. So many memories, so many, many, many things. That is where I come in. Trying to make someone understand that LESS is more, is close to impossible. Things are just that --- things! Buying more and more is almost like overeating. It is unhealthy and impulsive and wasteful. Some of his purchases were made out of disorganization but many were made to fill a void. I hope as he has moved on into a better chapter of his life, and in our purging exercise SEES the excessive error of his ways, he will learn this lesson.
While I've been helping him for awhile I found it meaningful to write about it this week because this was the week I arranged to have St. Vincent DuPaul come with moving trucks to take his old belongings, clothes, furniture, etc. to their resale shop for them. The proceeds for all sales will go to their organization. I am certain this gift is the largest they have ever and will ever see. Day 1 we filled an entire truck, which called for Day 2. I am sure we will have a Day 3 in the future. It felt so great to know that the gifts he gave will be spread throughout the city and that without my help it would never have happened. It also made me want to go home and clean out my basement.
March 17, 2011 --
Today was a very sad day. We said good-bye to a beautiful, gregarious, fun, intelligent woman, who was the partner of a good friend of ours. Her son also happens to be my son Shelby's best friend. It is so hard to help the ones you love when they are hurting -- you can give a donation and you can send flowers or dinner. You can support them as they say good-bye and you can be a listening ear...but I really wanted to share something special with Annie today to give her a smile and a happy memory of her true love so this morning as she prepared to say "good bye" I sent her a photograph of the two of them smiling as they enjoyed a party we had. While it was a small token, I really think today's RAK goes to my son Shelby. He has always been a special and sensitive boy and when I asked him if he wanted to come to Judith's funeral he said "of course I'm coming!" It did not occur to him for even a second that he wouldn't be there for his friend. He stayed with his friend and sat with him throughout the funeral, which impressed me immensely. This was Shelby's first funeral, and being a sensitive child, I wasn't sure how he would do. Would he be scared? Would he cry? Would he get nervous? He was so sad for Annie but tried to stay really calm for his friend's sake. I am so proud to have an empathetic, loving child who knows how to cherish his friends....and what makes me the most proud is that it genuinely came from his own instincts and heart.
Monday, March 14, 2011
3.14.11 - Catching UP
March 14, 2011
Today I'm playing catch up from my RAK log/blog.
MON 3/14 - Donated money for little Jordyn's bake sale which is raising money for Gleaner's food bank. I just love to hear about kids who are trying to make a difference -- and do!
SUN 3/13 - Took a few moments and sent a note of love and encouragement to someone who could really use some support at the moment.
SAT 3/12 - Donated to the Red Cross.
FRI 3/11 - Spent my night taking Shelby and his friend to a horrendous "boy" movie when it was my only time during the weekend that I would have had to myself (worked all weekend).
THURS 3/10 - Went to the Verizon store to discuss my ridiculous bill. The salesman went out of his way and spent thirty minutes with a supervisor on the phone to dispute my charges for me! After thanking him profusely, I went home and promptly got online to write to the owner of his building to praise his service.
Today I'm playing catch up from my RAK log/blog.
MON 3/14 - Donated money for little Jordyn's bake sale which is raising money for Gleaner's food bank. I just love to hear about kids who are trying to make a difference -- and do!
SUN 3/13 - Took a few moments and sent a note of love and encouragement to someone who could really use some support at the moment.
SAT 3/12 - Donated to the Red Cross.
FRI 3/11 - Spent my night taking Shelby and his friend to a horrendous "boy" movie when it was my only time during the weekend that I would have had to myself (worked all weekend).
THURS 3/10 - Went to the Verizon store to discuss my ridiculous bill. The salesman went out of his way and spent thirty minutes with a supervisor on the phone to dispute my charges for me! After thanking him profusely, I went home and promptly got online to write to the owner of his building to praise his service.
Wednesday, March 9, 2011
3.9.11 -- Mid Week Report
Okay so I haven't been finding time to write every day but I am getting back into the spirit of the true RAK.
WED: This morning I took myself on a breakfast date. Sometimes I do this when I want to clear my head and just be alone. So I'm sitting there drinking my coffee and I am watching this old couple eat their breakfast. After they leave, I see my waitress walk over to their table to collect her tip. They stiffed her. At first she was pissed but I overheard one of the other waitresses calm her down. I guess they are regulars and sometimes the old man just forgets the tip....while she cuts the guy some slack, I can tell she is really bummed. She obviously needs the money. When my breakfast comes I am completely underwhelmed. It isn't in my nature to be confrontational but this honestly wasn't even edible. I decided to just keep my mouth shut and paid my bill in full with a full tip. She needs it more than I do.
TUE: Tuesday my RAK was more of a gift from the heart. In preparation for my friend's surprise birthday party we were instructed to create a scrapbook page to either Roast or Toast them. Instead of crafting a page of old photos and funny anecdotes I decided to create from the heart. As she was celebrating her 40th birthday I created a list of the top 40 things I loved most about her. Who doesn't love hearing why they are loved? I think I am going to make this a tradition for all my loved ones on their special milestones.
MON: My original RAK was going to be cleaning up the car crash mess at the front of our subdivision but with the unexpected snowfall, I wasn't able to even see it --- so my RAK was sending a card to my old friend's parents, who recently lost their father/father-inlaw. I'm sure they will be surprised to hear from me but it was in my heart so I decided to let it out.
And that's my week so far! xox
WED: This morning I took myself on a breakfast date. Sometimes I do this when I want to clear my head and just be alone. So I'm sitting there drinking my coffee and I am watching this old couple eat their breakfast. After they leave, I see my waitress walk over to their table to collect her tip. They stiffed her. At first she was pissed but I overheard one of the other waitresses calm her down. I guess they are regulars and sometimes the old man just forgets the tip....while she cuts the guy some slack, I can tell she is really bummed. She obviously needs the money. When my breakfast comes I am completely underwhelmed. It isn't in my nature to be confrontational but this honestly wasn't even edible. I decided to just keep my mouth shut and paid my bill in full with a full tip. She needs it more than I do.
TUE: Tuesday my RAK was more of a gift from the heart. In preparation for my friend's surprise birthday party we were instructed to create a scrapbook page to either Roast or Toast them. Instead of crafting a page of old photos and funny anecdotes I decided to create from the heart. As she was celebrating her 40th birthday I created a list of the top 40 things I loved most about her. Who doesn't love hearing why they are loved? I think I am going to make this a tradition for all my loved ones on their special milestones.
MON: My original RAK was going to be cleaning up the car crash mess at the front of our subdivision but with the unexpected snowfall, I wasn't able to even see it --- so my RAK was sending a card to my old friend's parents, who recently lost their father/father-inlaw. I'm sure they will be surprised to hear from me but it was in my heart so I decided to let it out.
And that's my week so far! xox
Sunday, March 6, 2011
3.6.11 -
March 6, 2011
Well it's Sunday and it has been many days since I blogged. I've been in a bit of a funk lately and while I won't get into it, I am definitely finding it hard to randomly be kind when all I want to do is hide in my warm, cozy bed all day. But, that is exactly why I've elected to do this exercise -- to push myself to think of other first -- not just sometimes, but ALL of the time.
I have done some for of RAK each day but I was honestly going through the motions and just "checking it off my list"...in reflection I am going to make a stronger effort this week to genuinely be kind enough to someone else that it will make a difference. So, stay tuned....
xox
Well it's Sunday and it has been many days since I blogged. I've been in a bit of a funk lately and while I won't get into it, I am definitely finding it hard to randomly be kind when all I want to do is hide in my warm, cozy bed all day. But, that is exactly why I've elected to do this exercise -- to push myself to think of other first -- not just sometimes, but ALL of the time.
I have done some for of RAK each day but I was honestly going through the motions and just "checking it off my list"...in reflection I am going to make a stronger effort this week to genuinely be kind enough to someone else that it will make a difference. So, stay tuned....
xox
Wednesday, March 2, 2011
3.2.11 - Whole Foods Excursion
March 2, 2011
Made an impromptu donation to the Whole Planet Foundation while shopping at Whole Foods. If you shop at Whole Foods, it's easy to do -- just add whatever amount you like to your grocery bill and they take care of the rest!
Whole Planet Foundation’s mission is poverty alleviation in developing-world communities where Whole Foods Market sources products. Through microcredit, we seek to unleash the energy and creativity of every human being we work with in order to create wealth and prosperity in emerging economies. Whole Planet Foundation partners with microfinance institutions in Latin America, Africa and Asia. Learn more atwww.wholeplanetfoundation.org.
Made an impromptu donation to the Whole Planet Foundation while shopping at Whole Foods. If you shop at Whole Foods, it's easy to do -- just add whatever amount you like to your grocery bill and they take care of the rest!
Whole Planet Foundation’s mission is poverty alleviation in developing-world communities where Whole Foods Market sources products. Through microcredit, we seek to unleash the energy and creativity of every human being we work with in order to create wealth and prosperity in emerging economies. Whole Planet Foundation partners with microfinance institutions in Latin America, Africa and Asia. Learn more atwww.wholeplanetfoundation.org.
Tuesday, March 1, 2011
3.1.11 - Repeat Performance
March 1, 2011
I blogged a few months ago about my friend Caryn and her quest to build a new playground at her son's school. One of her fundraisers is to collect Box Top tabs from participating food/grocery items. I sent her a bag of tabs awhile ago and promised to continue to do so all year. Today I sent another bagful. I'm a woman of my word.
Monday, February 28, 2011
2.28.11
February 28, 2011
Today's RAKs were both school-related. Supported the 7th grade Bake Sale and also committed to sending in donations for our 8th grade homeroom "China" basket for the Roeper Auction. No clue where I'm finding Chinese items in suburban West Bloomfield but I'm sure I'll figure it out.
So tired -- signing off.
Today's RAKs were both school-related. Supported the 7th grade Bake Sale and also committed to sending in donations for our 8th grade homeroom "China" basket for the Roeper Auction. No clue where I'm finding Chinese items in suburban West Bloomfield but I'm sure I'll figure it out.
So tired -- signing off.
Saturday, February 26, 2011
2.26.11 - Misc.
You'd think having my boys and husband "home" on vacation all week would allow me oodles of time to myself (and time to write this blog).....not so much! I hope next week when everyone goes back to their normal life I will get back to writing daily.
Here's what I've been up to (besides being up to no good!)
February 24th - David and I went to a Town Meeting to support a booming Michigan industry -- film. Our new governor has single handedly halted this program, which will cost tens of thousands of jobs. Avoiding adversity isn't something I'm good at and since I'm good and pissed off I'm getting involved -- and encouraging my peers to do so as well.
February 25th - Cost of driving 2 hours to take your niece away from her studies and out to lunch? Priceless!
February 26th - Today I took a minute to send a "testimonial" to my landscaping company. They have always done a terrific job for us. With lawnmowing, landscaping and leaf removal they have always been great but this year, their snow plow service has been exceptional. We have an enormous amount of snow this year and with a long driveway I would have expected to be "snowed in" at least a few times. They have never missed a visit to our house and what is better is that they come during the night so we wake to a clean driveway. I REALLY appreciate it and took time to tell them!
Here's what I've been up to (besides being up to no good!)
February 24th - David and I went to a Town Meeting to support a booming Michigan industry -- film. Our new governor has single handedly halted this program, which will cost tens of thousands of jobs. Avoiding adversity isn't something I'm good at and since I'm good and pissed off I'm getting involved -- and encouraging my peers to do so as well.
February 25th - Cost of driving 2 hours to take your niece away from her studies and out to lunch? Priceless!
February 26th - Today I took a minute to send a "testimonial" to my landscaping company. They have always done a terrific job for us. With lawnmowing, landscaping and leaf removal they have always been great but this year, their snow plow service has been exceptional. We have an enormous amount of snow this year and with a long driveway I would have expected to be "snowed in" at least a few times. They have never missed a visit to our house and what is better is that they come during the night so we wake to a clean driveway. I REALLY appreciate it and took time to tell them!
Wednesday, February 23, 2011
2.22.11 - A Little Pick-Me-Up
February 22, 2011
Okay, I'm probably "outing" my anal retentive tendencies here, but it is really a pet peeve of mine to see careless trash strewn about the streets, parking lots, parks, you name it. One thing, in particular, that creeps me out, is when people use public restrooms as their personal dumping ground for gum wrappers, receipts, empty rolls of toilet paper, etc. Now don't get me wrong, I draw the line at public arena bathroom cleaning but yesterday I did my RAK at the doctor's office. When I think of my doctor's office I LIKE to think it is a sterile, clean and professional environment. And Dr. A's office is as stated, but when I walked into his bathroom and saw paper towels and gum wrappers on the floor it annoyed me. So yes, I admit it, I cleaned it all up (don't be grossed out -- I used a paper towel to do it!)
Okay, I'm probably "outing" my anal retentive tendencies here, but it is really a pet peeve of mine to see careless trash strewn about the streets, parking lots, parks, you name it. One thing, in particular, that creeps me out, is when people use public restrooms as their personal dumping ground for gum wrappers, receipts, empty rolls of toilet paper, etc. Now don't get me wrong, I draw the line at public arena bathroom cleaning but yesterday I did my RAK at the doctor's office. When I think of my doctor's office I LIKE to think it is a sterile, clean and professional environment. And Dr. A's office is as stated, but when I walked into his bathroom and saw paper towels and gum wrappers on the floor it annoyed me. So yes, I admit it, I cleaned it all up (don't be grossed out -- I used a paper towel to do it!)
Monday, February 21, 2011
2.21.11 - Handi-helper
February 21, 2011
Well, we are snowed in this morning so I'm not sure if I'm venturing out of the snow cave today....can't let a day go by without an RAK though.
Most days, I do more than one -- I just don't feel the need to write about it -- but for today, since I'm snowed it, I will steal one from yesterday's bank. Upon returning to our car from grocery shopping, it was a blizzard -- a Snowpocolypse if you will. Parked next to us in a handicapped spot was an old man who was loading his groceries into his car at a painfully slow rate, all the while becoming covered in snow. I shuffled over to him to help him load his car and then took his cart back to the cart caddy for him so he could get into his warm car. What is sad and pathetic and a telling sign of our society, is that even in our area I think this man's first instinct was to be afraid of me. I'm pretty sure if I was a man he would not have let me help him at all. Good thing I'm just a woman!
Well, we are snowed in this morning so I'm not sure if I'm venturing out of the snow cave today....can't let a day go by without an RAK though.
Most days, I do more than one -- I just don't feel the need to write about it -- but for today, since I'm snowed it, I will steal one from yesterday's bank. Upon returning to our car from grocery shopping, it was a blizzard -- a Snowpocolypse if you will. Parked next to us in a handicapped spot was an old man who was loading his groceries into his car at a painfully slow rate, all the while becoming covered in snow. I shuffled over to him to help him load his car and then took his cart back to the cart caddy for him so he could get into his warm car. What is sad and pathetic and a telling sign of our society, is that even in our area I think this man's first instinct was to be afraid of me. I'm pretty sure if I was a man he would not have let me help him at all. Good thing I'm just a woman!
Sunday, February 20, 2011
2.20.11 - Don't Mess with Me!
February 20, 2011
Today I sent 21 letters to 21 representatives, begging them to reconsider destroying Michigan's film incentives. Feel free to copy this letter, create your own spin and send it to your representatives. If you want the list of who I sent it to, I'm happy to provide it.
In the larger picture we must remember, we are now surrounded by States with similar incentives and perhaps they are more attractive due to weather, infrastructure or other factors. They would be happy to take the business we turn away. We need an opportunity to grow ours and better compete. We lose nothing if they don't come - we gain if they do! AND we have!
The positive economic impact goes directly to communities in the great State of Michigan. The amount of money brought in from a national commercial or a several million-dollar feature film can be dramatic.
Anytime a commercial or feature film rolls into town, markets, hotels and similar facilities see the ripple effect in their bottom line...that is money in the til and jobs. The benefits of the influx of this environmentally clean, labor friendly work also include the ability of our currently frayed production infrastructure to retool and better compete on a level playing field with the rest of the U.S.
Commercial work in particular is an issue worth reviewing. In doing so you will find that they, even more than feature films sustain local businesses across the range from rentals to post production.
Today I sent 21 letters to 21 representatives, begging them to reconsider destroying Michigan's film incentives. Feel free to copy this letter, create your own spin and send it to your representatives. If you want the list of who I sent it to, I'm happy to provide it.
Dear Representative,
I am a Project Manager for Real Style Extras Casting & Talent. We have worked on over 30 films here in Michigan and just finished wrapping the television program “Detroit 1-8-7.” Since Michigan’s tax incentives have been in effect, we have been able to place 30,000 extras on Michigan productions! 30,000!!!!
I'd like you to consider that the package of bills that make up our film incentives are an investment in Michigan’s economy. No investment earns the big payout in the short run, but these have brought in hundreds of jobs and spurred people to spend in Michigan. It is important to maintain and grow our industry and vendors who in fact are not related to this industry. It is not a perfect group of bills but they help create jobs and training opportunities. The effect of capping these bills has had an immediate impact on me and my family, as well as thousands of extras we work with.
Until the Governor’s speech last week, we were gearing up to what would have been the biggest summer Michigan’s film industry has ever seen. Huge Hollywood productions, some with budgets of over $100M, were considering Michigan as production sites. They’ve been scared away, costing Michigan millions in revenue. The trickle down effect is just devastating.
There are areas of the bill that should be reviewed. As examples I would suggest that providing incentives for out of state crew is unnecessary. And allowing companies to “pass through” as Michigan corporations is counterproductive.
In the larger picture we must remember, we are now surrounded by States with similar incentives and perhaps they are more attractive due to weather, infrastructure or other factors. They would be happy to take the business we turn away. We need an opportunity to grow ours and better compete. We lose nothing if they don't come - we gain if they do! AND we have!
The positive economic impact goes directly to communities in the great State of Michigan. The amount of money brought in from a national commercial or a several million-dollar feature film can be dramatic.
Anytime a commercial or feature film rolls into town, markets, hotels and similar facilities see the ripple effect in their bottom line...that is money in the til and jobs. The benefits of the influx of this environmentally clean, labor friendly work also include the ability of our currently frayed production infrastructure to retool and better compete on a level playing field with the rest of the U.S.
Commercial work in particular is an issue worth reviewing. In doing so you will find that they, even more than feature films sustain local businesses across the range from rentals to post production.
With studios Raleigh or ABC’s Highland Park facility up and running we will really start to see growth. I urge you to work with efforts to build up not only our industry, but businesses that benefit from the ripple effects.
Most Sincerely;
Most Sincerely;
Dena Raminick
Project Manager
Real Style
248-808-3473
draminick@realstyleonline.com
Facebook: Real Style Extras Casting & Talent
Twitter: RealStyleTalent
Project Manager
Real Style
248-808-3473
draminick@realstyleonline.com
Facebook: Real Style Extras Casting & Talent
Twitter: RealStyleTalent
Saturday, February 19, 2011
2.19.11 - Medicine for the Soul
February 19, 2011
Well I'm starting to slack on writing this blog. I'm not necessarily slacking on doing good things, I'm just not finding enough time to write about it. The last few days I've done RAK's that I won't write about because I think it might embarrass the people who were recipients of my love.
That being said, today's RAK is a recipe of heartfelt love. I have a friend who I am pretty sure is running herself ragged. She is caring for a treasured partner who is in the hospital and very sick. I know from experience that when you are dealing with someone you love that is sick, it takes everything out of you. You spend every ounce of emotion and it drains you to the point where you forget to eat. As I'm typing this I can smell the delicious mushroom barley soup I'm making for my dear friend. I will drop it off in the morning. There is not much I can do to ease the pain she is going through but I hope a little soup will warm her up.
Well I'm starting to slack on writing this blog. I'm not necessarily slacking on doing good things, I'm just not finding enough time to write about it. The last few days I've done RAK's that I won't write about because I think it might embarrass the people who were recipients of my love.
That being said, today's RAK is a recipe of heartfelt love. I have a friend who I am pretty sure is running herself ragged. She is caring for a treasured partner who is in the hospital and very sick. I know from experience that when you are dealing with someone you love that is sick, it takes everything out of you. You spend every ounce of emotion and it drains you to the point where you forget to eat. As I'm typing this I can smell the delicious mushroom barley soup I'm making for my dear friend. I will drop it off in the morning. There is not much I can do to ease the pain she is going through but I hope a little soup will warm her up.
Wednesday, February 16, 2011
2.16.11 - Operation Love Lola
February 16, 2011 --
I am copying the following note in the hopes my FB/Blog friends will join me in supporting this precious child.
You may be wondering what is Operation Love Lola?
First, let me tell you a little about this special girl named Lola. Lola is a five year old girl very near and dear to my heart, she is my niece. She is the sweetest girl I have ever met, alway polite, with a huge smile on her face. She has one of the biggest imaginations I know. She also may talk more than any other 5 year old I know. She loves princesses, fairies, the color pink, and my little ponies. Most of all she loves her Lamie and Bear, they have been with her through a lot. You may be thinking well, that sounds great but why does she need all this love?
On Valentine's Day Lola was diagnosed with Leukemia. Her prognosis is good as she has the best kind of Leukemia that she can for her age. Plus, she is in great care at a brand new children's hospital.
Here is where you come in:
I would LOVE for Lola to be showered with cards of encouragement, prayer, and well wishes while she goes through this process.
Since she will only be in the hospital for a little while and then will switch to outpatient care for treatment cards can be sent to me. I will then bring them to her. (Her family does not have a permeant address right now, see below for more info).
Please address and send cards to:
Operation Love Lola
C/O Tara Angus
1514 Erin St
Jenison, MI 49428
I really want this to be all about Lola but feel the need in my heart to share this piece of information because I know that her family will likely not ask for it.
Lola's family left the U.S. this fall to be full time missionaries in Africa. They quit their jobs, sold their cars, rented out their home, never ever intending to return for 2 years. They left the US to go do God's work including business education and orphan care. When Lola became sick they traveled 3 days via car to go to a hospital in the capitol. Then the mission organization told them to return to the US right away. They did not have time to return to their home in Africa. They left almost all of their belongings in Africa, as they were only planning to travel to the capitol for one week not to the US. When they arrived in the US they had summer gear on (flip flops, shorts), where they left it was over 100 degrees.
For now my Sister and her Husband are staying at the hospital but their younger daughter is staying with her Grandparents.
Their basic needs are met however there are items that they could use over time. Friends have let them borrow clothes but the time will come when the whole family will need their own clothes and belonging. If you would be willing and are able to donate to them that would be a blessing. Gift cards are welcome in any amount as are paypal donations to taraturtlecards@aol.com (I only use this account for paypal not to check my e-mail, please message me on FB with questions).
Right now it would be to difficult to coordinate actual donations of items (clothes, etc.) that is why I am asking for gift cards. This will allow the family to use them as needed over time.
Lastly, what they need most of all is prayer. We all know that the power of prayer is strong. When it is multiplied it is even stronger. Please pray for strength for Lola. Pray for her Doctors and Nurses. Pray for peace for her parents and extended family. Pray for understanding. Pray for quick and complete healing.
As my sister says, "God is good all the time".
No matter which option or options you chose in supporting Lola in the journey please know that I appreciate you taking part.
If you would like to follow their story or learn more please check out their blog: www.followingthecall.org
With a heavy heart but knowing peace from above,
Tara
I am copying the following note in the hopes my FB/Blog friends will join me in supporting this precious child.
You may be wondering what is Operation Love Lola?
First, let me tell you a little about this special girl named Lola. Lola is a five year old girl very near and dear to my heart, she is my niece. She is the sweetest girl I have ever met, alway polite, with a huge smile on her face. She has one of the biggest imaginations I know. She also may talk more than any other 5 year old I know. She loves princesses, fairies, the color pink, and my little ponies. Most of all she loves her Lamie and Bear, they have been with her through a lot. You may be thinking well, that sounds great but why does she need all this love?
On Valentine's Day Lola was diagnosed with Leukemia. Her prognosis is good as she has the best kind of Leukemia that she can for her age. Plus, she is in great care at a brand new children's hospital.
Here is where you come in:
I would LOVE for Lola to be showered with cards of encouragement, prayer, and well wishes while she goes through this process.
Since she will only be in the hospital for a little while and then will switch to outpatient care for treatment cards can be sent to me. I will then bring them to her. (Her family does not have a permeant address right now, see below for more info).
Please address and send cards to:
Operation Love Lola
C/O Tara Angus
1514 Erin St
Jenison, MI 49428
I really want this to be all about Lola but feel the need in my heart to share this piece of information because I know that her family will likely not ask for it.
Lola's family left the U.S. this fall to be full time missionaries in Africa. They quit their jobs, sold their cars, rented out their home, never ever intending to return for 2 years. They left the US to go do God's work including business education and orphan care. When Lola became sick they traveled 3 days via car to go to a hospital in the capitol. Then the mission organization told them to return to the US right away. They did not have time to return to their home in Africa. They left almost all of their belongings in Africa, as they were only planning to travel to the capitol for one week not to the US. When they arrived in the US they had summer gear on (flip flops, shorts), where they left it was over 100 degrees.
For now my Sister and her Husband are staying at the hospital but their younger daughter is staying with her Grandparents.
Their basic needs are met however there are items that they could use over time. Friends have let them borrow clothes but the time will come when the whole family will need their own clothes and belonging. If you would be willing and are able to donate to them that would be a blessing. Gift cards are welcome in any amount as are paypal donations to taraturtlecards@aol.com (I only use this account for paypal not to check my e-mail, please message me on FB with questions).
Right now it would be to difficult to coordinate actual donations of items (clothes, etc.) that is why I am asking for gift cards. This will allow the family to use them as needed over time.
Lastly, what they need most of all is prayer. We all know that the power of prayer is strong. When it is multiplied it is even stronger. Please pray for strength for Lola. Pray for her Doctors and Nurses. Pray for peace for her parents and extended family. Pray for understanding. Pray for quick and complete healing.
As my sister says, "God is good all the time".
No matter which option or options you chose in supporting Lola in the journey please know that I appreciate you taking part.
If you would like to follow their story or learn more please check out their blog: www.followingthecall.org
With a heavy heart but knowing peace from above,
Tara
2.15.11 - It's Who Ya' Know; RAK in the Workplace
February 15, 2011
Two different people today asked me if I "knew" of someone they could use as a business contact so it dawned on me that we all should be more inclined to help one another. It will take me much of the week to finish, but today I started a database of business contacts for several of my friends to use in their corporate conquests.
Monday, February 14, 2011
2.14.11 - Love is in the Air
It's been a crazy weekend with work, running around with my friends and then a very sick child at home so I haven't had time to blog about any RAK's. Don't want to let myself off the hook even in busy times so while I won't write a novella about it I will just log my gestures.
2:13 - Baked a Valentine's Day cake to take to Beaumont Hospital for their Pediatric party Monday. I was supposed to volunteer, but with Shelby's "flu cooties" on me I won't be playing with the kids -- just donating the goodies.
2:12 - I always try to do a good job at work but today we held a Casting Call for current talent to come take new head shots and review their profiles (which is the information we send to directors). I really spent extra quality time with each and every Extra to make sure their shots were the best ones to use and gave considerable thought to their profiles. Shared genuine compliments with all which is always something we can use.
2:11 - My BFF is in town so I surprised her by showing up at her mom's house with a box of cookies from her favorite bakery. I drew hearts and wrote love notes all over the box so she would feel special and know how much I love her.
2.10 - Met the girls for drinks and fun. Not an over-the-top RAK but I paid for a round of shots and snacks.
And that takes me to today, 2.14 --- It's Valentine's Day -- usually one of my favorites -- but today I'm feeling tired and a tiny bit gloomy. Mood be damned I will not excuse myself from this exercise. I decided this morning, that although David is working all day and although I have two teenagers who are embarrassed by my presence I am throwing them a formal Valentine's dinner, complete with candles, flowers, a cake and Valentine's gifts. I just sent them all text messages Cordially Inviting them to Dine with their Valentine at 7 pm.
S.W.A.K.
2:13 - Baked a Valentine's Day cake to take to Beaumont Hospital for their Pediatric party Monday. I was supposed to volunteer, but with Shelby's "flu cooties" on me I won't be playing with the kids -- just donating the goodies.
2:11 - My BFF is in town so I surprised her by showing up at her mom's house with a box of cookies from her favorite bakery. I drew hearts and wrote love notes all over the box so she would feel special and know how much I love her.
2.10 - Met the girls for drinks and fun. Not an over-the-top RAK but I paid for a round of shots and snacks.
And that takes me to today, 2.14 --- It's Valentine's Day -- usually one of my favorites -- but today I'm feeling tired and a tiny bit gloomy. Mood be damned I will not excuse myself from this exercise. I decided this morning, that although David is working all day and although I have two teenagers who are embarrassed by my presence I am throwing them a formal Valentine's dinner, complete with candles, flowers, a cake and Valentine's gifts. I just sent them all text messages Cordially Inviting them to Dine with their Valentine at 7 pm.
S.W.A.K.
Thursday, February 10, 2011
2.9.11 - SWAK
February 9, 2011
A few weeks ago I sat down to write and decorate Valentine's for all my girls. I sent out dozens of them this week and today I hand delivered more. Who doesn't love getting actual mail? I know I much prefer to hold an actual card in my hand, knowing the care and thought someone took versus opening a quick email or text, a virtual expression left to float in digital space out of reach (unless I remember to save it).
It has warmed my heart this week as I've gotten calls and email responses -- just knowing that I put a smile on someone's face.
Kindness in words creates confidence. Kindness in thinking creates profundity. Kindness in giving creates love. - Lao Tse
PS: As an extra RAK today, I left a 50% tip for my waitress at lunch. Was she a fabulous waitress? Not even close.
A few weeks ago I sat down to write and decorate Valentine's for all my girls. I sent out dozens of them this week and today I hand delivered more. Who doesn't love getting actual mail? I know I much prefer to hold an actual card in my hand, knowing the care and thought someone took versus opening a quick email or text, a virtual expression left to float in digital space out of reach (unless I remember to save it).
It has warmed my heart this week as I've gotten calls and email responses -- just knowing that I put a smile on someone's face.
Kindness in words creates confidence. Kindness in thinking creates profundity. Kindness in giving creates love. - Lao Tse
PS: As an extra RAK today, I left a 50% tip for my waitress at lunch. Was she a fabulous waitress? Not even close.
Tuesday, February 8, 2011
2.8.11 - Friends
February 8. 2011
Remember the old commercial for AT&T with the slogan "Reach Out & Touch Someone?" That's what I did today.
Thirteen years ago I befriended a wonderful lady. Our children were born at the same hospital, on the same day, and almost at the same time. I can't explain the fun we had together as our children went through all their baby/toddler milestones together. As the years have passed, we had lost touch. There was no rhyme or reason to it; it just happened. Coming across her on Facebook one day, it jolted my memory and my heart strings so I invited her brunch.
We met today and within 30 seconds it was as if no time at all had passed. I do believe everyone happens to come into your life for one reason or another; maybe you don't always know what it is, or what lessons you are to learn from one another, but I'm vowing to embrace this and act on it more often.
Remember the old commercial for AT&T with the slogan "Reach Out & Touch Someone?" That's what I did today.
Thirteen years ago I befriended a wonderful lady. Our children were born at the same hospital, on the same day, and almost at the same time. I can't explain the fun we had together as our children went through all their baby/toddler milestones together. As the years have passed, we had lost touch. There was no rhyme or reason to it; it just happened. Coming across her on Facebook one day, it jolted my memory and my heart strings so I invited her brunch.
We met today and within 30 seconds it was as if no time at all had passed. I do believe everyone happens to come into your life for one reason or another; maybe you don't always know what it is, or what lessons you are to learn from one another, but I'm vowing to embrace this and act on it more often.
Monday, February 7, 2011
2.7.11 - Yummies for my Cuties
February 6 & 7 ---
Yesterday (2/6) while cooking and slaving in the kitchen for the boys' Super Bowl party I threw together Noah's favorite pie, Oreo Pie. I usually only make it once a year -- the night before school -- and we call it "Back to School Pie." ---- he was soooo happy!
Today (2/7) I surprised one of my favorite little cutes, Jordyn, with a bag of my famous chocolate chip cookies. She loooooves them! And I love to make her smile!
Guess I've been on a baking kick lately -- so much more fun to share it than to eat it.
Yesterday (2/6) while cooking and slaving in the kitchen for the boys' Super Bowl party I threw together Noah's favorite pie, Oreo Pie. I usually only make it once a year -- the night before school -- and we call it "Back to School Pie." ---- he was soooo happy!
Today (2/7) I surprised one of my favorite little cutes, Jordyn, with a bag of my famous chocolate chip cookies. She loooooves them! And I love to make her smile!
Guess I've been on a baking kick lately -- so much more fun to share it than to eat it.
Saturday, February 5, 2011
2.5.11 - It's Good: Superbowl RAK
It couldn't be a crappier day here in Michigan. It's cold and it's been snowing nonstop and to make it a triple whammy, I have a wicked sore throat. After schlepping out for hours today to get food and munchies for tomorrow's Superbowl party (David & Noah are having their friends over!) I came home and spent hours in the kitchen baking cookies and getting things ready to make sliders, 7-layer dip and other goodies. Once I finished in the kitchen someone had to tackle the mountain of dishes so I did that, too.
I finally crawled into bed to relax (it's 9 pm) and just said to David. "Oh Crap! I forgot to do something nice today!!" He reminded me that all I did today was do "something nice" for him and for Noah......so I chuckled and wrote my blog.
Friday, February 4, 2011
2.4.11 - An Apple for the Teacher
I still remember the first teacher who really believed in me. She was very pretty, with perfectly coiffed black hair, preppy clothes and smelled of the latest perfume. I remember she kept her chalk in a plastic holder and I loved the rhythmic sound it made as she rolled it between her ring-clad hands as she lectured. It used to remind me of rolling pins and cookie dough; I think I secretly wanted her to be my mother.
Her name was Mrs. Applebaum and she was my 7th grade English teacher. I always felt special in her class because she constantly praised me for my perfect scores, my precise spelling, my grammar and my writing. She often read my essays aloud and for the first time I really felt like I might be more than average.
Mrs. Applebaum made an impact on my life and as an adult I really wanted to express my gratitude. A few years ago I "googled" her to send her a note to let her know how much her class meant to me and how writing has played a part in my life. I never found her.
Today my RAK took my back. While I have never found my teacher, I didn't want to wait thirty years to say "thank you" to a teacher that has made a difference in my child's life. Mrs. K took notice of Shelby right away. He was the one kid who understood her sense of humor, dissected her vocabulary and understood the words on a page in layers beyond his years. I really appreciate her taking the time to challenge him and wanted her to know that her class is making a difference to him. I am watching his self-esteem rise and an enthusiasm for writing that thrills me. Just taking a few minutes to write her a note reminds me that we all shouldn't wait to say thank you to people that make a difference in our lives.
Thursday, February 3, 2011
2.3.11 - This Vein's for You
February 3, 2011
Did you know our nation is suffering a shortage of blood? We are over 28,000 units short -- that's a LOT of blood. Today I booked an appointment to give blood and here are my top three reasons why YOU should join me:
1. It just might be YOUR loved one in need of blood
2. It's a nice thing to do and I will give you an RAK pat-on-the-back
3. I promise you won't miss the blood they take.
Hope you all go to www.redcross.org -- hey -- it's free cookies, people!
Wednesday, February 2, 2011
2.2.11 - Baggin' Candy
February 2, 2011
With Snowpocolype in town there wasn't much contact with the outside world---so, today I took some time to get ready for Valentine's Day. My plans for the holiday this year will take me to Beaumont's Pediatric floor where the For A Day Foundation is helping to throw a party for the kids who have to spend Valentine's Day in the hospital. My RAK today -- I made 40 super cute goodie bags filled with candy to take with me on Feb. 14....now the trick is to keep it hidden from the boys in my house for the next 12 days.
With Snowpocolype in town there wasn't much contact with the outside world---so, today I took some time to get ready for Valentine's Day. My plans for the holiday this year will take me to Beaumont's Pediatric floor where the For A Day Foundation is helping to throw a party for the kids who have to spend Valentine's Day in the hospital. My RAK today -- I made 40 super cute goodie bags filled with candy to take with me on Feb. 14....now the trick is to keep it hidden from the boys in my house for the next 12 days.
Tuesday, February 1, 2011
2.1.11 - Truth be Told
February 1, 2011
Today was the ultimate test of my RAK journey. In the beginning I told myself I wanted to do this to see if I would/could continue the kindness in times of trouble, sadness, anger or general laziness.
The morning greeted me with very disappointing news. When things truly upset me I am not one to share it. I either pack it away or I isolate myself until I am ready for humanity again. This morning, after reading my email, I crawled back in bed and really, really, really wanted to sleep the day away. On my TO DO LIST today, however, was "Call Davida" -- my friend who just broke her foot. Just wanted to check in on her to see if she needed anything. I put it off hour after hour because I just wasn't ready to put on my smiley face and talk to anyone.
After a long, hot shower I checked my phone to find that SHE had called ME first...of course I quickly returned the call. Needing a few groceries, I gladly hopped to it and I have to say thank you to Davida! Doing a favor for her actually did a favor for me. She crashed my Pity Party and doing something nice for her put a smile back on my face that I didn't think was possible. Thanks D! xox
Today was the ultimate test of my RAK journey. In the beginning I told myself I wanted to do this to see if I would/could continue the kindness in times of trouble, sadness, anger or general laziness.
The morning greeted me with very disappointing news. When things truly upset me I am not one to share it. I either pack it away or I isolate myself until I am ready for humanity again. This morning, after reading my email, I crawled back in bed and really, really, really wanted to sleep the day away. On my TO DO LIST today, however, was "Call Davida" -- my friend who just broke her foot. Just wanted to check in on her to see if she needed anything. I put it off hour after hour because I just wasn't ready to put on my smiley face and talk to anyone.
After a long, hot shower I checked my phone to find that SHE had called ME first...of course I quickly returned the call. Needing a few groceries, I gladly hopped to it and I have to say thank you to Davida! Doing a favor for her actually did a favor for me. She crashed my Pity Party and doing something nice for her put a smile back on my face that I didn't think was possible. Thanks D! xox
Monday, January 31, 2011
1.31.11 - A Lil' Chuckle for Ya'
January 31, 2011
Poor David is having a craptastic day today so I would be a bad wife if I didn't dedicate my RAK to him.
Knowing he needed a little extra sweetness I picked up ten packets of his favorite (and HARD to find) candy, Chuckles. Instead of just giving him the bag of candy I decided to hide them all over the house. Hope it brings him ten more smiles. xox
1.30.11 - DInner
January 30, 2011
Cooking dinner is always a stressful thing for me and my friends know that. After reading my blog last week, my friend Sherry was incredibly kind and brought me dinner with a note that said "4 All U Do, This Brisket is for U!".....I was so touched that someone would do something so nice for me that of course, I had to pay it forward.
My friend Lois is a few years older than me -- okay a few decades older than me, and with that sometimes comes health issues. Lois is doing great - fit as a fiddle, face of a model and mouth of sailer. Her husband, on the other hand, has had his share of battles this year. Knowing I'd see her tomorrow for lunch I decided to bring her dinner to take to her husband so she'd have one less thing on her plate. After I had everything ready and packed up I called her to give her a head's up and to reconfirm our lunch plans. I told her not to worry about making dinner tomorrow because I had it covered. Then the laughter ensued.
Of course my first thought was the laughter was for my cooking but she was laughing because she had just finished making a roast for ME, complete with the recipe card. Sometimes RAK's come full circle. Guess it's my lucky day.
Saturday, January 29, 2011
1.29.11 - Hang UP & Drive
January 29, 2011
Last week while driving home, I saw an SUV driving like a jerk. He was swerving all over the place and my first instinct was that he was probably on the phone. We've all been guilty of reading emails, texting, or holding a phone while we drive and we all need to take a SERIOUS look at why we do this. Some of us talk on the phone because we are bored or because we feel we HAVE to because of our jobs, but I truly feel most of us do it because we can't stand to be idle in our own skin. With all the modes of communication available to us, we feel completely off-kilter without being "tuned in" 24/7. We have become so ADD as a nation that we can't sit still and focus on what is most important -- our safety and the safety of others.
I am the worst offender of being a multi-tasker but when it comes to talking on the phone in the car I've gotten better and better. I really only use my Blue Tooth and I no longer read emails at every stop light. I mean, seriously people, is my social life, family issue or work crisis more important than your safety? Can my life literally NOT wait just a few minutes or a half an hour until I reach my destination? How on earth did the world work thirty years ago? We all need to get a grip -- on the STEERING WHEEL.
Today I took a pledge to make my car a No Phone Zone. Beginning right now, I will do my part to help put an end to distracted driving by committing to driving as responsibly as I can. I pledged to never text and only use my Blue Tooth if a call is necessary.
http://www.oprah.com/questionaire/ipledge.html?id=4
PS. I love you more than I love my phone.
Last week while driving home, I saw an SUV driving like a jerk. He was swerving all over the place and my first instinct was that he was probably on the phone. We've all been guilty of reading emails, texting, or holding a phone while we drive and we all need to take a SERIOUS look at why we do this. Some of us talk on the phone because we are bored or because we feel we HAVE to because of our jobs, but I truly feel most of us do it because we can't stand to be idle in our own skin. With all the modes of communication available to us, we feel completely off-kilter without being "tuned in" 24/7. We have become so ADD as a nation that we can't sit still and focus on what is most important -- our safety and the safety of others.
Today I took a pledge to make my car a No Phone Zone. Beginning right now, I will do my part to help put an end to distracted driving by committing to driving as responsibly as I can. I pledged to never text and only use my Blue Tooth if a call is necessary.
http://www.oprah.com/questionaire/ipledge.html?id=4
PS. I love you more than I love my phone.
1.28.11 - Time to Bring the Donuts
January 28, 2011
Taking time to actually write this blog is a blessing and a curse. It is great because it makes me accountable to myself but it also is a constant reminder that I have one more thing on my To Do list that must get done.
I was on the run all day and while I'd certainly been pleasant and nice to people I hadn't done anything exactly Random or Kind. I spent my entire day taking care of a sick kid, driving carpools and running errands for my family. Does being Super Mom count as an RAK? Nope, I'm not letting myself off that easily.
After an evening in Ann Arbor with a friend, I realized on the way home that it was after 11 pm and I still had not completed my RAK for the day. No cars had broken down on the freeway to save, no lost puppy needed directions and no old lady needed help crossing the road so I did whatever any other Mom would do.... I went to Dunkin' Donuts and bought individual boxes of Munchins for my boys and left them on the counter for a Saturday morning surprise.
I'm taking my sugar-coated fingers and checking off my list.
Thursday, January 27, 2011
1.27.11 - Just Like a Prayer
January 27, 2011
I heard some disturbing news today about someone and it literally hurt my heart. The family, devoutly Christian, has asked us all to pray. I remember as a little girl bending over my bed, hands together to pray as I'd read about in a book. I was sure that was how you were supposed to do it but it just didn't feel right. I wasn't sure who I was exactly praying to. Being dogmatic at age 4, I was an atheist before my time. That was the last time I prayed alone.
As I've gotten older I've realized that it is just ignorance and arrogance that keeps you from being a believer. Do I believe there is a man in a white beard and robe ready and willing to receive and answer my prayers? No, and I am jealous of people who can put a face with God and believe it. I do, however, believe we are very tiny creatures in a world so wide we are incapable of comprehending it....and if we think we can we are the ultimate idiots. Millions of people are moved by the power of prayer so who am I to arrogantly assume they are wrong. So while it isn't in my nature, I took a few moments to pray tonight and I used my whole heart.
I heard some disturbing news today about someone and it literally hurt my heart. The family, devoutly Christian, has asked us all to pray. I remember as a little girl bending over my bed, hands together to pray as I'd read about in a book. I was sure that was how you were supposed to do it but it just didn't feel right. I wasn't sure who I was exactly praying to. Being dogmatic at age 4, I was an atheist before my time. That was the last time I prayed alone.
As I've gotten older I've realized that it is just ignorance and arrogance that keeps you from being a believer. Do I believe there is a man in a white beard and robe ready and willing to receive and answer my prayers? No, and I am jealous of people who can put a face with God and believe it. I do, however, believe we are very tiny creatures in a world so wide we are incapable of comprehending it....and if we think we can we are the ultimate idiots. Millions of people are moved by the power of prayer so who am I to arrogantly assume they are wrong. So while it isn't in my nature, I took a few moments to pray tonight and I used my whole heart.
Wednesday, January 26, 2011
1.26.11 - Let them Eat Cake!
January 26, 2011
Not too exciting, but today I bought cake mixes to donate to Gleaner's Food Bank. For Spirit Week at Noah's school, one of the competitions is a food drive but to make it more fun, each grade was given specific food items to donate and specific classrooms and hours in which to donate them. If all of the items on the list are donated, they win points for their grade. Clever!!
Tuesday, January 25, 2011
1.25.11 - Time for Change
January 25, 2011
When I rush too much, I always get burned. It's the story of my life, yet it's a pattern I can't seem to change. To put a positive spin on this obvious flaw, I call it a "quirk" but in actuality it is annoying, rude and sometimes dangerous.
Today I met a friend for lunch and was running ten minutes behind. Finding parking in Birmingham during lunchtime is kind of like finding a diamond ring in the bottom of a box of Cheerios. I was already cutting it close so imagine my surprise when a minivan pulled out of a spot at the exact moment I pulled in front of the restaurant. Hmmm. Maybe this conscious RAK routine was paying me back. Maybe I should check the bottom of my cereal box. I grabbed some change and threw it in the meter. It read "33 minutes." Knowing I'd never be done in half an hour I arrogantly ran inside the restaurant. After all, I'd abandoned many-a-meter over the years in B'ham and never been caught.
Halfway through lunch that karma bit me in the ass. I saw the Parking Control Car creep past the window and just knew my luck had run out. My first instinct was to run outside and either bribe the parking patroller or maybe just flirt a little til' he destroyed my ticket, but in the end I decided I deserved the ticket. Time to pay up --not to the B'ham Police (well, not yet anyway) but it was time to pay it forward. I took all the change out of my wallet and put it in my neighbor's meter. I want my kharma back, please.
When I rush too much, I always get burned. It's the story of my life, yet it's a pattern I can't seem to change. To put a positive spin on this obvious flaw, I call it a "quirk" but in actuality it is annoying, rude and sometimes dangerous.
Today I met a friend for lunch and was running ten minutes behind. Finding parking in Birmingham during lunchtime is kind of like finding a diamond ring in the bottom of a box of Cheerios. I was already cutting it close so imagine my surprise when a minivan pulled out of a spot at the exact moment I pulled in front of the restaurant. Hmmm. Maybe this conscious RAK routine was paying me back. Maybe I should check the bottom of my cereal box. I grabbed some change and threw it in the meter. It read "33 minutes." Knowing I'd never be done in half an hour I arrogantly ran inside the restaurant. After all, I'd abandoned many-a-meter over the years in B'ham and never been caught.
Halfway through lunch that karma bit me in the ass. I saw the Parking Control Car creep past the window and just knew my luck had run out. My first instinct was to run outside and either bribe the parking patroller or maybe just flirt a little til' he destroyed my ticket, but in the end I decided I deserved the ticket. Time to pay up --not to the B'ham Police (well, not yet anyway) but it was time to pay it forward. I took all the change out of my wallet and put it in my neighbor's meter. I want my kharma back, please.
Monday, January 24, 2011
1.24.11 - Royal Fun
January 24, 2011
Sometimes you think you are giving a gift, but it comes right back to you...www.detroitqfad.comTonight I shared some time with a dozen or so children on the Peds floor at Beaumont Hospital for our Royal Tuck In program (through the For a Day Foundation). I joined three other volunteers for bed-side visits, giving away fuzzy new blankets, goodie bags and new teddy bears. We've been visiting this hospital for almost 7 years now and doing this particular program for the last 2.
When I started the program its original goal was to relax the children before bed. We'd bring them goodies, read them a story and in essence, tuck them in for the night. As the visits have progressed I am seeing that the visits are doing much more than relaxing the kids, they are reaching the parents as well. Our dialogue with them is as important as our conversations with the kids and I'm finding it so rewarding. Tonight in particular was a good night. We visited "Robby" (not really his name, as with HIPA laws, I can't reveal real details) and we were warned that it had been an unusually stressful day. After our visit, we had Robby and both of his parents laughing and smiling and you could just feel the tension lifted. My favorite gift of the night, however, was from "Freddy" an adorable tow-headed 3-year old who made me dinner. Play Doh Pancakes. Both he and my fake dinner were delicious! www.detroitqfad.com
Sometimes you think you are giving a gift, but it comes right back to you...www.detroitqfad.comTonight I shared some time with a dozen or so children on the Peds floor at Beaumont Hospital for our Royal Tuck In program (through the For a Day Foundation). I joined three other volunteers for bed-side visits, giving away fuzzy new blankets, goodie bags and new teddy bears. We've been visiting this hospital for almost 7 years now and doing this particular program for the last 2.
When I started the program its original goal was to relax the children before bed. We'd bring them goodies, read them a story and in essence, tuck them in for the night. As the visits have progressed I am seeing that the visits are doing much more than relaxing the kids, they are reaching the parents as well. Our dialogue with them is as important as our conversations with the kids and I'm finding it so rewarding. Tonight in particular was a good night. We visited "Robby" (not really his name, as with HIPA laws, I can't reveal real details) and we were warned that it had been an unusually stressful day. After our visit, we had Robby and both of his parents laughing and smiling and you could just feel the tension lifted. My favorite gift of the night, however, was from "Freddy" an adorable tow-headed 3-year old who made me dinner. Play Doh Pancakes. Both he and my fake dinner were delicious! www.detroitqfad.com
Sunday, January 23, 2011
1.23.11 -- Everyone has a Story
January 23, 2011
Okay, we all know I can't cook but it doesn't mean I don't try. Every week I visit our butcher (for the sake of the story I will call him Sam like Mrs. Brady did, but that's not really his name). Sam is a sweetheart. In the midst of the busiest day of his week, he always greets me with a smile and more importantly, he gives me encouragement and recipe ideas.
Sometimes we forget that our Butcher, our Dry Cleaner, our Cab Driver are each human beings. Humans with stories and feelings. Sam had a story and one day he shared it with me. Why? Because I asked him for a pound of ground chicken.
Sam was married for over 40 years to a woman who could really cook. No matter if she worked all day or he was in a bad mood, she always put dinner on the table. It was one of the ways she verbalized her love. Sam lost his wife a few years ago and you can tell that his is forever lost himself. His conversations linger like they might be his last. A simple question about a cut of meat can take you into stories from his times working on the line or stories about his grown children when they were little.
The first time I spoke to Sam and I heard his story his woulds were obviously fresh. I realized that sometimes losing someone you love that much can leave you eternally lost in this atmosphere. So today, although I was in a hurry to finish my shopping, I took some time to chat with Sam. Like I do each time I see him, I let our conversation linger as long as he needed me. It breaks and warms my heart at the same time.
Okay, we all know I can't cook but it doesn't mean I don't try. Every week I visit our butcher (for the sake of the story I will call him Sam like Mrs. Brady did, but that's not really his name). Sam is a sweetheart. In the midst of the busiest day of his week, he always greets me with a smile and more importantly, he gives me encouragement and recipe ideas.
Sometimes we forget that our Butcher, our Dry Cleaner, our Cab Driver are each human beings. Humans with stories and feelings. Sam had a story and one day he shared it with me. Why? Because I asked him for a pound of ground chicken.
Sam was married for over 40 years to a woman who could really cook. No matter if she worked all day or he was in a bad mood, she always put dinner on the table. It was one of the ways she verbalized her love. Sam lost his wife a few years ago and you can tell that his is forever lost himself. His conversations linger like they might be his last. A simple question about a cut of meat can take you into stories from his times working on the line or stories about his grown children when they were little.
The first time I spoke to Sam and I heard his story his woulds were obviously fresh. I realized that sometimes losing someone you love that much can leave you eternally lost in this atmosphere. So today, although I was in a hurry to finish my shopping, I took some time to chat with Sam. Like I do each time I see him, I let our conversation linger as long as he needed me. It breaks and warms my heart at the same time.
1.22.11 - Compliments of Dena
January 22, 2011 (sorry I posted a day late but I wasn't home long enough to write/blog)....
Words are powerful tools so use them wisely. Yesterday (1/22) I consciously and genuinely made an effort to compliment those around me. Some remarks were deep and meaningful and some were general comments to perfect strangers. Giving someone self-esteem or a smile or an extra spring in their step selfishly put me in a better mood but what I really hope it did was cause those I targeted to re-gift a compliment. Here's a task -- try giving 10 different people 10 different compliments. The only caveat I'm adding is ya' have to mean it! xox
Friday, January 21, 2011
1.21.11 - S.W.A.K.
January 21, 2011
What girl didn't eagerly anticipate Valentine's Day in grade school? I used to love making my special Valentines' mailbox to hold all the cute cards and tasty treats from my classmates. The hopeless romantic in me always hoped and prayed for a love note from Corey G., Ryan M. or Randy S. but I settled for winning 1st place in the 3rd grade Valentine's Box Art Contest.
Like all girls, I still love Valentine's Day....and I still love Valentine's cards. My darling friend Paula always sends me a card with lots of hearts and stickers and such. It's just a sweet reminder that she loves me. I'm not always so great at telling people how much I truly care about them so so today I sat down with my elementary school enthusiasm and my colored markers and rainbow heart stickers and made cards for ALL of my girlfriends (and even some of my boyfriends!) They are my love notes to you!
LUV U ALL!
xoxo
What girl didn't eagerly anticipate Valentine's Day in grade school? I used to love making my special Valentines' mailbox to hold all the cute cards and tasty treats from my classmates. The hopeless romantic in me always hoped and prayed for a love note from Corey G., Ryan M. or Randy S. but I settled for winning 1st place in the 3rd grade Valentine's Box Art Contest.
Like all girls, I still love Valentine's Day....and I still love Valentine's cards. My darling friend Paula always sends me a card with lots of hearts and stickers and such. It's just a sweet reminder that she loves me. I'm not always so great at telling people how much I truly care about them so so today I sat down with my elementary school enthusiasm and my colored markers and rainbow heart stickers and made cards for ALL of my girlfriends (and even some of my boyfriends!) They are my love notes to you!
LUV U ALL!
xoxo
Thursday, January 20, 2011
1.20.11 - Picture This
January 20, 2011
You don't take a photograph. You ask, quietly, to borrow it. ~Author. Unknown
You ask to borrow it and if you're feeling generous, you give it back. - Author, Dena.
In the middle of my busy day today I stopped to flip through my iPhoto books of past events. While I was enjoying my little trip down memory lane I realized I've been hogging all these photos for myself. My RAK today? I took a 20 minute time-out to send friends and family emails with photo attachments of pictures I've been enjoying of them! Who doesn't love to see a cute picture of themselves with their loved ones? Just a little treat from me to you!
xox
You don't take a photograph. You ask, quietly, to borrow it. ~Author. Unknown
You ask to borrow it and if you're feeling generous, you give it back. - Author, Dena.
In the middle of my busy day today I stopped to flip through my iPhoto books of past events. While I was enjoying my little trip down memory lane I realized I've been hogging all these photos for myself. My RAK today? I took a 20 minute time-out to send friends and family emails with photo attachments of pictures I've been enjoying of them! Who doesn't love to see a cute picture of themselves with their loved ones? Just a little treat from me to you!
xox
Wednesday, January 19, 2011
1.19.11 - Winter Blahs
January 19, 2011
This winter deal is a bummer. The icy sidewalks, the dirty snow, the sub-zero temps -- I've had enough. As my dad likes to say, when the temperature owes you degrees, that kind of sucks.
I'm not the only one in the house affected by the Winter Blues. My honey has also had enough. I have noticed that it seems to be the worst at night when we retreat to our bedroom for the evening. After doing a bit of research on moods and color I have come to the realization that perhaps the muted tones of brown and ice blue don't translate into warm and cozy.
Today's RAK is for David (okay, and maybe a little for me too). I have replaced our bedding with a brightly colored duvet and pillows and have brought in some super funky and sunny lighting. No need to wait another three months for some warmth! I hope this little token cheers up the seasonal mood in the house.
For those of you in a Winter Funk, try brining in warm colors in your house or maybe some freshly-cut flowers. If that doesn't work and you really just need a laugh, try watching American Idol!
This winter deal is a bummer. The icy sidewalks, the dirty snow, the sub-zero temps -- I've had enough. As my dad likes to say, when the temperature owes you degrees, that kind of sucks.
I'm not the only one in the house affected by the Winter Blues. My honey has also had enough. I have noticed that it seems to be the worst at night when we retreat to our bedroom for the evening. After doing a bit of research on moods and color I have come to the realization that perhaps the muted tones of brown and ice blue don't translate into warm and cozy.
Today's RAK is for David (okay, and maybe a little for me too). I have replaced our bedding with a brightly colored duvet and pillows and have brought in some super funky and sunny lighting. No need to wait another three months for some warmth! I hope this little token cheers up the seasonal mood in the house.
Tuesday, January 18, 2011
1.18.11 - Order Up
January 18, 2011
Today I went to the Apple store with Noah to get him a new computer. I love Apples but I do NOT love the Apple stores....they bring out the silent agoraphobic in me. I thought today would be a safe day. Afterall, it's Tuesday, and who the heck has time on a Tuesday afternoon to go to the mall? Turns out, a LOT of people do....but I suffered through it thanks to Tom. Tom was a great computer guru and painlessly guided us through our purchase. What's great about the Apple store is not only is the staff "put in your pocket" adorable but they couldn't be more helpful. After our purchase, Tom sat us down and helped Noah set up his computer and even walked him through setting up his tutorial classes. Best of all he had our purchase taken to my car so I didn't have to schlep it through the mall. All in all, a painless ordeal.
What does this have to do with RAK? I decided to share my appreciation of Tom with others, in the hopes that it will trickle back down to him in the form of either a bonus or at least some praise from his boss. I "reviewed" Tom and the store online and also sent him a copy of what I wrote. It's easy to do and it got me thinking. How many times have you complained about bad service? Can you match that with the times you have complimented on GOOD service? Just something to munch on.
Today I went to the Apple store with Noah to get him a new computer. I love Apples but I do NOT love the Apple stores....they bring out the silent agoraphobic in me. I thought today would be a safe day. Afterall, it's Tuesday, and who the heck has time on a Tuesday afternoon to go to the mall? Turns out, a LOT of people do....but I suffered through it thanks to Tom. Tom was a great computer guru and painlessly guided us through our purchase. What's great about the Apple store is not only is the staff "put in your pocket" adorable but they couldn't be more helpful. After our purchase, Tom sat us down and helped Noah set up his computer and even walked him through setting up his tutorial classes. Best of all he had our purchase taken to my car so I didn't have to schlep it through the mall. All in all, a painless ordeal.
What does this have to do with RAK? I decided to share my appreciation of Tom with others, in the hopes that it will trickle back down to him in the form of either a bonus or at least some praise from his boss. I "reviewed" Tom and the store online and also sent him a copy of what I wrote. It's easy to do and it got me thinking. How many times have you complained about bad service? Can you match that with the times you have complimented on GOOD service? Just something to munch on.
Monday, January 17, 2011
1.17.11 - Food for Thought
January 17, 2011
Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter. - MLK
It seems apropos today of all days, that I reflect a bit on the last two weeks. Making a conscious effort to be kind and do good things for others has had a ripple effect in many ways. I have been overwhelmed by the many stories my friends have shared with me about RAKs they have instigated either on their own or as a result of reading the blog. I am humbled at the thought that my actions could entice reactions. I love that -- isn't that what it's all about? I'm pretty sure there is a quote somewhere out there in the universe about Kindness breeding more Kindness. I'll have to look that up.
My RAK today was spending the afternoon with a great organization called Kids Against Hunger. Kids Against Hunger is a 501(c)3 that packages highly nutritious food packets that are sent all over the world. They have educational workshops on site to educate people about famine in Haiti, the politically torn Sudan and also does a wonderful job of explaining these world situations to children in a way that empowers. Today our family was just four of at least 1,000 people preparing and packaging dry casserole packets to be sent to food banks around the world. One nice aspect of this program was its sense of community; as you entered your role you were "trained" by the family or group working before you and it was nice to pay it forward when we were done.
www.kidsagainsthunger.com
Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter. - MLK
It seems apropos today of all days, that I reflect a bit on the last two weeks. Making a conscious effort to be kind and do good things for others has had a ripple effect in many ways. I have been overwhelmed by the many stories my friends have shared with me about RAKs they have instigated either on their own or as a result of reading the blog. I am humbled at the thought that my actions could entice reactions. I love that -- isn't that what it's all about? I'm pretty sure there is a quote somewhere out there in the universe about Kindness breeding more Kindness. I'll have to look that up.
My RAK today was spending the afternoon with a great organization called Kids Against Hunger. Kids Against Hunger is a 501(c)3 that packages highly nutritious food packets that are sent all over the world. They have educational workshops on site to educate people about famine in Haiti, the politically torn Sudan and also does a wonderful job of explaining these world situations to children in a way that empowers. Today our family was just four of at least 1,000 people preparing and packaging dry casserole packets to be sent to food banks around the world. One nice aspect of this program was its sense of community; as you entered your role you were "trained" by the family or group working before you and it was nice to pay it forward when we were done.
Sunday, January 16, 2011
1.16.11 - McCookin' at TSS
January 16, 2011
Today I went outside of my comfort zone for the sake of Tikun Olam. For those of you not familiar with the term, it is the Hebrew phrase for "Repairing the World."
There's not much that makes me squirm, but I'd say cooking and kitchens are a good place to start. Noah, David and I joined several hundred fellow Temple Shir Shalom members today for what we call Tikun Olam-a-Thon. This is an annual event where we pair off into groups to provide a service to one of many needy organizations. Some people created gift bags for sick children; some people went to nursing homes to play games or sing for the elderly; some packed food for Yad Ezra (food bank). We joined Zak and his crew from Cutting Edge Cuisine to prepare a hot lunch for the folks at Ronald McDonald house. Knowing my, well...let's just say..."limitations" ... I was put on Breadstick Patrol, but I put my heart into them and that's what counts. Luckily they tasted better than they looked.
Today I went outside of my comfort zone for the sake of Tikun Olam. For those of you not familiar with the term, it is the Hebrew phrase for "Repairing the World."
There's not much that makes me squirm, but I'd say cooking and kitchens are a good place to start. Noah, David and I joined several hundred fellow Temple Shir Shalom members today for what we call Tikun Olam-a-Thon. This is an annual event where we pair off into groups to provide a service to one of many needy organizations. Some people created gift bags for sick children; some people went to nursing homes to play games or sing for the elderly; some packed food for Yad Ezra (food bank). We joined Zak and his crew from Cutting Edge Cuisine to prepare a hot lunch for the folks at Ronald McDonald house. Knowing my, well...let's just say..."limitations" ... I was put on Breadstick Patrol, but I put my heart into them and that's what counts. Luckily they tasted better than they looked.
Saturday, January 15, 2011
1.15.11 - I'm Listening
January 15, 2011
I'm a work in progress, as we all are. One of my Sagitarian flaws is that I'm a talker...and sometimes when you talk a lot you aren't the best listener. I'm really working on that piece of business...really trying to digest what people are saying to me instead of formulating responses mid-dialogue.
A few weeks ago I was having brunch with my dear friend. We don't see each other nearly enough so there is LOTS of talking that needs to be done. I consciously spent a good portion of our time together really listening to her...not just listening to the details of her stories but listening to what is important in her world.
It may sound silly but my dear friend has taken the lead in her child's school in their efforts to build a new playground through the Box Tops program. This is where you collect "box tops" from participating food/grocery products and turn them in for dollars toward your school. I can only imagine how many box tops it will take to actually build a new playground -- but talking to my friend and her passionate plea, you will believe it can and will be done.
So today's random act of kindness if for Caryn. Watch your mail because I've been saving all my box tops for you and just sent you a package...and I'll be doing it all year just for you!
P.S. I want to be the first one down the slide!
I'm a work in progress, as we all are. One of my Sagitarian flaws is that I'm a talker...and sometimes when you talk a lot you aren't the best listener. I'm really working on that piece of business...really trying to digest what people are saying to me instead of formulating responses mid-dialogue.
A few weeks ago I was having brunch with my dear friend. We don't see each other nearly enough so there is LOTS of talking that needs to be done. I consciously spent a good portion of our time together really listening to her...not just listening to the details of her stories but listening to what is important in her world.
It may sound silly but my dear friend has taken the lead in her child's school in their efforts to build a new playground through the Box Tops program. This is where you collect "box tops" from participating food/grocery products and turn them in for dollars toward your school. I can only imagine how many box tops it will take to actually build a new playground -- but talking to my friend and her passionate plea, you will believe it can and will be done.
P.S. I want to be the first one down the slide!
Friday, January 14, 2011
1.14.11 - Cleanup on Aisle 2
January 14, 2011
I think Rachael Ray is stalking me. Okay, well she may not be reading my blog, she has acquired the kindness bug. Beginning 1/17 she is kicking of the "Kindness Challenge" so if you watch her show (which I do not) tell me all about it. RR and her EVOO have always irritated me but in honor of her kindness pledge I will try not to make fun of her for the rest of the year.
In other thrilling news, my random act of kindness today was for a wonderful neighbor Julie. Julie is a fabulous neighbor who always has a friendly smile, a stick of butter, a magazine to swap and general interesting news to report. On our way out to sushi tonight we noticed she hadn't taken her garbage cans/recycling bins in from yesterday. Her house is dark and both garages are closed...thinking they are out of town...soooooo David and I took their cans/bins in. No biggie!
I think Rachael Ray is stalking me. Okay, well she may not be reading my blog, she has acquired the kindness bug. Beginning 1/17 she is kicking of the "Kindness Challenge" so if you watch her show (which I do not) tell me all about it. RR and her EVOO have always irritated me but in honor of her kindness pledge I will try not to make fun of her for the rest of the year.
In other thrilling news, my random act of kindness today was for a wonderful neighbor Julie. Julie is a fabulous neighbor who always has a friendly smile, a stick of butter, a magazine to swap and general interesting news to report. On our way out to sushi tonight we noticed she hadn't taken her garbage cans/recycling bins in from yesterday. Her house is dark and both garages are closed...thinking they are out of town...soooooo David and I took their cans/bins in. No biggie!
Thursday, January 13, 2011
1.13.11 - A Sweet Gift
January 13, 2011
Never been much of a Robin Williams fan but here's a quote of his that works for me:
“I'm sorry, if you were right, I'd agree with you.”
I'll admit I have a flaw (perhaps I have more than one but I'm not sharing!). I can be stubborn. Especially when I know I'm right. Today I had a disagreement with someone I love and decided to "gift" this person a pass on having to argue with me until he/she figured out I was right. Instead, I simply left him/her a box of candy with a note that said "I Heart U". I'm thinking this is a gift for us both. xox
Wednesday, January 12, 2011
1.12.11 - Under the FREEZIN' COLD Weather
January 12, 2011
Part of the exercise of this year-long journey is to see if I can "walk the walk of kindness" when I'm not in a good mood. I woke up under the weather today and the freezing cold temps certainly didn't put a spring in my step. What random act of kindness would I muster up in my less-than-pleasant mood?
Peering out the window I caught a glimpse of a gaggle of middle schoolers shivering on my front sidewalk as they awaited the school bus. Most of those kids were not wearing boots. (Fashion comes before Common Sense in Middle School!) I realized those poor kids were going to have freezing cold feet because I hadn't shoveled the walkway. Soooooo, I layered up, went outside and shoveled my walkway...then I also shoveled my neighbors walkway because I knew she wasn't home. Usually I find my "kindness" acts have a ripple effect on my day but I will be honest -- today I just wanted to crawl back under the covers with a cup of hot cocoa.
Peering out the window I caught a glimpse of a gaggle of middle schoolers shivering on my front sidewalk as they awaited the school bus. Most of those kids were not wearing boots. (Fashion comes before Common Sense in Middle School!) I realized those poor kids were going to have freezing cold feet because I hadn't shoveled the walkway. Soooooo, I layered up, went outside and shoveled my walkway...then I also shoveled my neighbors walkway because I knew she wasn't home. Usually I find my "kindness" acts have a ripple effect on my day but I will be honest -- today I just wanted to crawl back under the covers with a cup of hot cocoa.
Tuesday, January 11, 2011
1.11.11 - Just Post It
January 11, 2011
I'm pretty sure at age 11 and 13, my kids would rather get a root canal than receive a love note from their mother. The mere existence of me is pretty much an embarrassment. I'm not even allowed to sing along to the radio in the car just in case someone they know happens to drive within 50 feet.
It occurred to me today that I have found the perfect way to share my thoughts. The Sticky Note. While packing Noah's lunch today I left him a note to wish him luck on his midterms and let him know I loved him. He hasn't mentioned this note as he is "too cool" (and he is probably afraid it will encourage me to engage him in conversation in a public place) but I know it will have lasting value.
Monday, January 10, 2011
1.10.11 - Haute Vote
January 10, 2011
I really love my friends. I’m what you would call “A Giver,” “A Softie,” or as others would say …..“A Sucker!” You need a shoulder to cry on? Want to borrow a cup of sugar? Pick you up at the airport at 1 am? Need me to write your son’s essay to get into college? I’m your girl.
Today, as I was going through my Facebook, I realized I have been ignoring the many requests that have been sent to me to “Vote for…” miscellaneous causes/issues. While it may seem a pointless exercise to some, I decided to take ten minutes and really read through these requests. If it is important to YOU than shouldn’t I care enough about you to support your causes?
Today I:
- Signed a petition for CREDO urging Sarah Palin to stop using shooting images in political rhetoric
- Voted for water.org in the Lowe’s Charitable and Educational Foundation’s contest to donate $100,000
- Signed a petition to save the bison of Yellowstone National Park
- Voted to help a friend’s father stop smoking
Now, friends, don’t get carried away. While I’m thrilled to support you in all your endeavors and causes, I will draw the line at the following request. I will never change my Facebook status to:
PLEASE put this on your status if you know someone or are related to someone who has been eaten by dragons. Dragons are nearly unstoppable and in case you didn't know, they can breathe fire. 93% of people won't copy and paste this, because they have already been eaten by dragons. 6% of people are sitting in the shower, armed with fire extinguishers.. and the remaining 1% are awesome and will re-post this.
I am not THAT awesome.
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